I’m Eric Vanderheyden, and Pivot Point Coaching was born out of a battle I know too well. For 15 years, I lived in a toxic marriage, but when my ex-wife filed for divorce, that wasn’t the worst of it. The false accusations, the way she turned my kids against me—that’s when my world truly crashed. What followed was a year of brutal legal fights, draining my wallet and spirit, only to see things worsen as she controlled the narrative and tried to push me out of my children’s lives. Following my divorce, years of alienation and nonexistent co-parenting by my ex left me on the sidelines, watching my bond with my kids fade.

But I refused to stay there. I believe we can all shape our own destinies, and I decided enough was enough. I stopped letting her dictate my story. I dug into strategies—holding her accountable to our divorce agreement, countering her moves, and fighting to be the father my kids deserve. It wasn’t easy, but it worked. I reclaimed my place, step by step.

That struggle wasn’t just mine—thousands of men deal with the same struggle. I believe everything happens for a reason, and what I went through taught me how to help men like you. At Pivot Point Coaching, I work one-on-one with you to navigate the chaos of high-conflict divorce and custody wars. Together, we’ll build practical plans, counter the tactics, and forge your path forward—so you can protect what matters most and come out stronger. You’re not alone in this. Let’s take back control.